Would You Rather is the simplest game in the world. Two options. One choice. No right answer. And yet somehow, the choices people make reveal more about them than an hour of normal conversation.
That’s why we included a full Would You Rather deck in Ohh with 90 cards. But whether you’re using the app or just scrolling this list at dinner, here are 100 of our favourites — sorted by vibe so you can match the energy of whatever moment you’re in.
Funny & light
Start here. Low stakes, high entertainment. Perfect for warming up a group.
1. Would you rather always have to sing instead of speak, or always have to dance instead of walk?
2. Would you rather have a rewind button or a pause button for your life?
3. Would you rather be able to talk to animals or speak every human language?
4. Would you rather never use social media again or never watch TV/films again?
5. Would you rather have unlimited free flights or unlimited free food for life?
6. Would you rather be famous for something embarrassing or unknown for something incredible?
7. Would you rather always be 10 minutes late or always be 20 minutes early?
8. Would you rather have a personal chef or a personal stylist?
9. Would you rather live in a treehouse or a houseboat?
10. Would you rather be able to teleport but only to places you’ve already been, or fly but only at walking speed?
11. Would you rather give up cheese or give up chocolate?
12. Would you rather have your search history made public or your camera roll?
13. Would you rather only be able to whisper or only be able to shout?
14. Would you rather have a dog-sized elephant or an elephant-sized dog?
15. Would you rather always have perfect Wi-Fi or always have a fully charged phone?
16. Would you rather live without music or without films?
17. Would you rather have dinner with your future self or your past self?
18. Would you rather forget the entire plot of your favourite show or never watch anything new?
19. Would you rather always overdress or always underdress?
20. Would you rather be able to read minds but not turn it off, or be invisible but not turn it off?
Friendship & relationships
These ones hit closer to home. Great for best friends who can handle honesty.
21. Would you rather have one best friend or ten good friends?
22. Would you rather know what people really think of you or never know?
23. Would you rather be friends with someone who’s always honest or always kind?
24. Would you rather lose all your old memories or never make new ones?
25. Would you rather be betrayed by a friend or by a partner?
26. Would you rather always know when someone is lying or always get away with lying?
27. Would you rather have a friend who challenges you or a friend who comforts you?
28. Would you rather reconnect with a lost friend or fast-forward a new friendship by 5 years?
29. Would you rather have a friend who’s brutally honest about your flaws or one who never mentions them?
30. Would you rather be the friend people call for advice or the friend people call for fun?
31. Would you rather forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it or hold a grudge you know is justified?
32. Would you rather know your partner’s every thought or have them know yours?
33. Would you rather date someone who’s your opposite or your clone?
34. Would you rather be with someone who’s always busy but devoted, or always available but distracted?
35. Would you rather have an awkward first date that becomes a great relationship, or amazing chemistry that fizzles fast?
Deep & philosophical
These are the ones that make people stare at the ceiling for a full minute before answering.
36. Would you rather know the date of your death or the cause of your death?
37. Would you rather live to 120 in average health or to 80 in perfect health?
38. Would you rather relive your happiest moment forever or experience something new every day?
39. Would you rather have all the money you need but no purpose, or a deep sense of purpose but always struggle financially?
40. Would you rather be forgotten completely after death or remembered for something you didn’t do?
41. Would you rather know the absolute truth about the universe or live in blissful ignorance?
42. Would you rather have the power to change the past or see the future?
43. Would you rather live a short extraordinary life or a long ordinary one?
44. Would you rather be the smartest person in the room or the happiest?
45. Would you rather have certainty or possibility?
46. Would you rather lose the ability to feel sadness or the ability to feel excitement?
47. Would you rather always tell the truth or always know the truth?
48. Would you rather master every skill but enjoy none of them, or find deep joy in one thing?
49. Would you rather be admired by strangers or deeply loved by a few?
50. Would you rather make one decision that changes the world or one that changes your life?
Spicy & bold
For friend groups with zero filter. You’ve been warned.
51. Would you rather your ex write a book about you or your best friend?
52. Would you rather have everyone know your salary or your body count?
53. Would you rather accidentally like a 3-year-old photo of your crush or send a screenshot to the person you screenshotted?
54. Would you rather your parents read all your texts or your boss read all your DMs?
55. Would you rather give up kissing or cuddling?
56. Would you rather date someone with terrible style but amazing personality, or incredible style but no depth?
57. Would you rather be with someone who’s an 8 in looks and a 5 in personality, or a 5 in looks and a 10 in personality?
58. Would you rather have your partner forget your birthday every year or forget your anniversary?
59. Would you rather date someone who’s always on their phone or someone who refuses to text?
60. Would you rather catch feelings for your flatmate or your co-worker?
61. Would you rather be cheated on and know, or be cheated on and never find out?
62. Would you rather have amazing physical chemistry but nothing in common, or everything in common but no spark?
63. Would you rather be with a great kisser who’s a bad listener, or a bad kisser who remembers everything you say?
64. Would you rather your love life be a rom-com or a thriller?
65. Would you rather go on a date planned by your best friend or a date planned by AI?
Career & ambition
Surprisingly revealing. How people think about work says a lot about how they think about life.
66. Would you rather have your dream job with average pay or a boring job with amazing pay?
67. Would you rather be your own boss with constant stress or have a great boss with limited freedom?
68. Would you rather be wildly successful at 25 or steadily successful from 40 onwards?
69. Would you rather work 4 days a week at 100% intensity or 5 days at 70%?
70. Would you rather be known for one big achievement or a lifetime of good work?
71. Would you rather have a job you love that impresses nobody, or a job you tolerate that everyone envies?
72. Would you rather never retire but love your work, or retire at 45 but feel purposeless?
73. Would you rather work remotely forever or have the best office in the world?
74. Would you rather mentor one person who changes the world or lead a team of 1,000?
75. Would you rather fail publicly at something big or succeed privately at something small?
Hypothetical & weird
The kind of questions that sound silly but lead to surprisingly real discussions.
76. Would you rather live in a world with no internet or no air conditioning?
77. Would you rather be able to breathe underwater or survive in space?
78. Would you rather live in the world of the last show you watched or the last book you read?
79. Would you rather wake up tomorrow 10 years younger or 10 years older?
80. Would you rather have a time machine that only goes forward or only goes back?
81. Would you rather be the best player on a losing team or the worst player on a winning team?
82. Would you rather have the ability to undo your last decision or preview your next one?
83. Would you rather be stuck in a lift with your boss or your ex?
84. Would you rather live in a world where everyone can read minds or no one can lie?
85. Would you rather relive the same perfect day forever or always experience new imperfect days?
The final fifteen
We saved the hardest for last. These are the ones people argue about for hours.
86. Would you rather be loved for who you pretend to be or alone for who you actually are?
87. Would you rather have unlimited confidence or unlimited empathy?
88. Would you rather know everything but feel nothing, or feel everything but know nothing?
89. Would you rather fix one thing about the world or one thing about yourself?
90. Would you rather live in a world where everyone is honest or everyone is kind?
91. Would you rather be happy alone or unhappy with the love of your life?
92. Would you rather experience everything once or master one experience?
93. Would you rather lose your greatest memory or your greatest talent?
94. Would you rather die a hero at 40 or live as nobody until 100?
95. Would you rather be feared or forgotten?
96. Would you rather have all your questions answered or have all the right questions?
97. Would you rather know how people truly see you or never know?
98. Would you rather be wrong about something important or right about something nobody believes?
99. Would you rather live without regret or live without expectation?
100. Would you rather keep asking questions or finally know all the answers?
How to play
The beauty of Would You Rather is that there are no rules. But if you want to make it better:
Make them commit before explaining. Pick A or B. No “it depends.” The reasoning comes after. The instant reaction is where the fun lives.
Follow up with “why?” The choice is just the beginning. The real conversation starts when someone explains their thinking.
Do it async. Send one to a friend right now. Pick from this list, answer it yourself, and text them your choice. Or better yet, use Ohh — pick from the Would You Rather deck, answer first, and send it as a Spark.
Want more? Ohh has a full Would You Rather deck with 90 cards, plus 57 other decks covering everything from Icebreakers to Fears & Vulnerabilities. Over 3,000 conversation cards total. Download free and try your first one tonight.
Now pick a number between 1 and 100 and send it to someone. We dare you.